Happy Mother's Day · May 10, 2026

Brandilyn

For the mother of our boys, and the love of my life.

Married
days, hours, minutes
Knowing you
days, hours, minutes
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A Letter

For you, my love

This Mother's Day, I wanted to celebrate you in a way that does not disappear when the day ends or wilt the way flowers do in a week. I wanted to give you something that lasts. A reminder of who you are, and what you mean to me.

Thank you for making me a father again. It was a dream we both held, and your hot box truly came through.

Believe it or not, I work hard for you and the boys. My desire is to provide for our family and to leave something behind for our sons. You are the reason. Thank you for being my motivation.

Always yours,
Alexander
Our Story

From a probate to forever

Fifteen years, and we are just getting started.

2011
April 17 · The Beginning
The Delta Probate

The first time I saw you. You did not know it yet, but that day quietly set the course for everything after.

2011 → 2019
The Patient Years
Booty Deposits

Eight years of small, steady deposits into your orbit. I was playing the long game, knowing the withdrawal would be worth every minute of the wait.

2019
The Withdrawal
You slid into my DMs

Right on time. Worth the wait. Every deposit redeemed in a single message.

2019
2020
COVID · The Hospital
You showed up

COVID put me in a hospital bed. You were there for every step of it, without flinching. That was the moment I really knew.

2020
2020
September 25 · Before the flight
Officially mine

Sitting in the airport, before our flight, I asked you to be my girlfriend. You said yes. The trip became about something more than where we were going.

September 2020
2021
A Foundation
We built our home

Walls of our own. A roof we chose. The first thing we built together, and far from the last.

Our home, 2021
2025
November 29 · The Vow
My wife. Dallas' bonus mom.

You said yes, and Dallas inherited the mother he was always meant to have. Two gifts in one day.

Our wedding day
2026
March 13 · Our Boy
Jamuir Alexander Burks

The dream we both held, here in the world. Eight pounds of proof that patience pays.

Jamuir, March 2026
Why I Love You

Seven things, and so much more

No. 01
You feel everything, big or small, with your whole chest. So I already know the way you feel about me is next level.
No. 02
Your dedication to family is the most selfless thing I have ever witnessed up close.
No. 03
Your work ethic. Everything you touch comes out better than you found it.
No. 04
Watching you mother our son. The love. The nurturing. It is its own kind of magic, and I get to live next to it.
No. 05
The way you show up for Dallas. Bonus mom is a title that does not begin to capture what you are to him.
No. 06
Your patience with me. Your willingness to support every wild idea I bring home. You are the reason I keep building.
No. 07
Being married to a vampire. Honestly, the best thing that ever happened to my sleep schedule.
Our Boys

Both eight, in their own way

Dallas
Dallas Alexander Burks
8 years · Our oldest

The one you chose. The one who chose you back.

Jamuir
Jamuir Alexander Burks
8 weeks · Our newest

The dream made real. Right on time.

Welcome, Jamuir

Eight weeks of him

The boy who made you a mother again.

He has your eyes when he is calm, and your fire when he is not. He could not have come from anyone else.

The Day He Arrived

March 13, 2026

The day you became his mother.

First moments
For Your Ears

Hear me say it

A few words, in my voice.
Recorded the night before Mother's Day, 2026.

In Closing

Happy Mother's Day, my Brandilyn

You are the heart of this family. You are the reason any of it works. And as long as I am breathing, this little site will keep counting the days I get to love you.

— Alexander
Built with love · Mother's Day · 2026